Here’s What You Need to Know About Healthy Fats
I’ll be honest with you. For years, I was doing everything wrong with my diet. I’d avoid fat like it was poison, thinking it would make me gain weight. Boy, was I wrong.
After months of feeling tired, hungry all the time, and watching the scale refuse to budge, I finally figured it out. The problem wasn’t that I was eating too much fat—I wasn’t eating enough of the right kinds.
These 7 fats changed everything for me:
- Flax Seeds – My go-to omega-3 source
- Olive Oil – But never for cooking (I learned this the hard way)
- Chia Seeds – Keeps me full for hours
- Hemp Hearts – Perfect in my morning smoothie
- Avocados – Half of one with every meal
- Coconut Oil – My secret weapon for energy
- CLA – When I need extra fat loss support
Most nutrition experts say get 25-35% of your calories from fat. I push my clients toward the higher end of that range. Here’s why that works so well.

Why Your Body Actually Needs More Fat (Not Less)
Look, I get it. We’ve been told for decades that fat makes you fat. That’s complete nonsense, and here’s what actually happens when you don’t eat enough healthy fats:
Your hormones go haywire. Your brain feels foggy. You’re hungry every two hours. Sound familiar?
Your body uses fat for:
- Making hormones (especially the ones that burn fat)
- Feeding your brain (it’s 60% fat, after all)
- Absorbing vitamins A, D, E, and K
- Keeping you satisfied after meals
- Fighting inflammation
When I cut fat from my diet, I was miserable. Constantly hungry, couldn’t think straight, and my weight loss stopped completely. The minute I added these superfats back? Everything changed.
The 7 Fats That Actually Help You Lose Weight
1. Flax Seeds: Your Daily Omega-3 Insurance

Here’s something most people don’t know: flax seeds have more omega-3s than any other plant food. Most of us are omega-3 deficient, which shows up as dry skin, brain fog, and chronic inflammation.
What makes flax seeds special: They contain lignans—think of these as your body’s cleanup crew. They grab onto toxins, excess cholesterol, and heavy metals and escort them out of your system.
But here’s the catch: You MUST grind them first. I learned this the hard way after eating whole flax seeds for weeks with zero results. Your body can’t break through that tough outer shell.
How I use them:
- Grind 1-2 tablespoons fresh each morning
- Toss into my smoothie or sprinkle on yogurt
- Always keep ground flax in the fridge (it goes rancid fast)
Pro tip: Buy a small coffee grinder just for flax seeds. Game changer.
2. Olive Oil: The Mediterranean Secret (With One Big Rule)

Olive oil’s main component is oleic acid, an omega-9 fat that actually kills candida yeast. You know, the stuff that causes digestive problems, athlete’s foot, and those stubborn yeast infections.
But here’s what nobody tells you: Never, ever cook with olive oil. Heat destroys all the good stuff and turns it into inflammatory garbage.
I use olive oil for:
- Salad dressings (mix with lemon juice and herbs)
- Drizzling over cooked vegetables
- Finishing dishes after they’re off the heat
Storage matters: Keep it in a dark, cool place. Light and heat are olive oil’s enemies.
When I started using olive oil properly, my digestion improved within weeks. My skin cleared up too—bonus!
3. Chia Seeds: The Food That Keeps You Full

The ancient Mayans and Aztecs were onto something big with chia seeds. They used them as currency because they were so valuable. Modern science proves why.
What I love about chia seeds:
- More omega-3s than salmon (per serving)
- Complete protein with all 9 essential amino acids
- Loaded with calcium, magnesium, and potassium
- Tons of fiber that keeps you satisfied
Here’s my routine: Soak 1-2 tablespoons in water for 5-10 minutes before eating. They form this gel-like consistency that’s incredibly filling. Unlike flax seeds, you can eat these whole.
My favorite chia trick: Mix them into almond milk with vanilla and stevia. Let it sit overnight. It’s like healthy pudding for breakfast.
4. Hemp Hearts: The Perfect Balance

Hemp hearts have the ideal 3:1 ratio of omega-6 to omega-3 fats. That’s exactly what your body needs for optimal health.
Why I recommend hemp hearts:
- 10 grams of protein in just 3 tablespoons
- Rich in Alpha-Linolenic Acid (ALA) for brain health
- Loaded with iron, magnesium, and zinc
- Great for skin health
How I eat them: Straight from the package. No prep needed. I throw 2-3 tablespoons into smoothies or just eat them as a snack. They have a mild, nutty flavor that works with everything.
Storage tip: Keep them in a cool, dry place. Once opened, they last about 3 months.
5. Avocados: The Metabolism Booster

Avocados are packed with the same oleic acid found in olive oil. But here’s what makes them special: they boost your metabolism and help you absorb nutrients from other foods.
My avocado strategy: Half an avocado with every meal. Sounds like a lot? It’s not. The monounsaturated fats keep you full for hours and actually help you burn calories faster.
Ripeness test: It should yield slightly to gentle pressure. Too soft and it’s overripe. Too firm and it’s not ready.
Pro tip: Add lemon juice to prevent browning. I meal prep sliced avocados this way for the whole week.
Since I started eating avocados regularly, I stopped snacking between meals. The satiety effect is incredible.
6. Coconut Oil: Instant Energy

Coconut oil contains Medium Chain Triglycerides (MCTs). These are unique fats that your body uses immediately for energy instead of storing them.
What makes coconut oil different:
- Boosts metabolism within hours
- Provides instant energy (no storage)
- Heals and soothes digestive issues
- Fights harmful bacteria and viruses
How I use it: 1-2 tablespoons daily. I cook with it (high smoke point), add it to coffee, or use it in smoothies. It’s solid at room temperature but melts instantly.
Cooking advantage: Unlike olive oil, coconut oil stays stable under heat. Perfect for sautéing vegetables or baking.
The energy boost from coconut oil is noticeable within 30 minutes. It’s like clean-burning fuel for your body.
7. CLA: The Fat Loss Accelerator

CLA (Conjugated Linoleic Acid) is a special omega-6 fat found in safflower oil. Research shows it specifically targets stubborn body fat while preserving muscle mass.
What the research says:
- Most effective for people with significant weight to lose
- Helps maintain lean muscle during weight loss
- Improves insulin sensitivity
Dosage that works:
- For fat loss: 4-5 grams daily
- For muscle building: 6-7 grams daily
- Take with meals for best absorption
Reality check: The research is strongest for people who are significantly overweight. If you’re just trying to lose 10-15 pounds, the other fats on this list will be more helpful.

How Much Fat Should You Actually Eat?
Here’s my simple formula that works:
For most people: 30-35% of daily calories from healthy fats For a 2000-calorie diet: About 65-78 grams of fat daily.
My daily fat intake looks like this:
- 1 tablespoon ground flax seeds (4g)
- 2 tablespoons olive oil (28g)
- 1 tablespoon chia seeds (5g)
- 2 tablespoons hemp hearts (10g)
- ½ avocado (15g)
- 1 tablespoon coconut oil (14g)
Total: 76g = 32% of calories
That might sound like a lot, but remember—these fats keep you full, boost your metabolism, and provide sustained energy.

Let’s Clear Up Some Fat Myths
“Fat makes you fat” Nope. Sugar and processed carbs make you fat. Healthy fats boost metabolism.
“All fats are the same” Wrong. Trans fats will kill you. Omega-3s will heal you. Big difference.
“Low-fat diets are healthier” Tell that to the millions of people who gained weight on low-fat diets in the 90s.
“Saturated fats are evil” Natural saturated fats like coconut oil? Fine in moderation. Processed saturated fats? Avoid those.
I fell for these myths for years. Don’t make my mistakes.
Your Simple 7-Day Fat Integration Plan
Don’t try to add everything at once. Your digestive system needs time to adjust.
Week 1:
- Days 1-2: Start with flax seeds and olive oil
- Days 3-4: Add chia seeds and hemp hearts
- Days 5-6: Include avocado and coconut oil
- Day 7: Consider CLA if you need extra fat loss support
What to watch for:
- Increased energy (usually within 3-5 days)
- Better satiety between meals
- Improved focus and mood
- Digestive changes (normal as your body adjusts)
Pro tip: Start with smaller portions and increase gradually. Your body will tell you what feels right.

Storage Tips That Actually Matter
Keep in the fridge:
- Ground flax seeds (3 months max)
- Ground chia seeds (if pre-ground)
- Opened hemp hearts
Cool, dark storage:
- Olive oil (away from heat and light)
- Whole chia seeds
- Coconut oil (solid at room temperature is normal)
Shelf life reality:
- Ground flax: Use within 3 months
- Olive oil: 2 years unopened, 6 months opened
- Chia seeds: 2-4 years if stored properly
- Hemp hearts: 1 year unopened, 3 months after opening
I learned these storage rules the hard way after throwing away rancid flax seeds multiple times.
The Real Results You Can Expect
After working with clients for over 20 years of helping people optimize their fat intake, here’s what typically happens:
Week 1-2: Better energy, less hunger between meals
Week 3-4: Improved focus, better sleep quality
Month 2: Noticeable changes in body composition
Month 3+: Sustained weight loss, improved overall health
Important note: I’m not a doctor, and this isn’t medical advice. If you have health conditions or take medications, talk to your healthcare provider before making major dietary changes.
Ready to Transform Your Health?
Look, I spent years struggling with low energy, constant hunger, and stubborn weight because I believed the low-fat myth. Don’t make the same mistake.
Your action steps:
- Start with 2-3 of these fats this week
- Pay attention to how you feel
- Gradually increase to 30-35% of your calories from healthy fats
- Give it at least 4 weeks to see full results
- Track your energy, mood, and hunger levels
The bottom line: Your body needs fat to function properly. The right fats will boost your metabolism, improve your health, and help you lose weight naturally.Ready to take your health transformation to the next level? I’d love to help you create a personalized plan that works for your specific goals and lifestyle. Book a call and let’s discuss what’s possible for you.
Medical Disclaimer: This content is for educational purposes only and doesn’t replace professional medical advice. Always consult your healthcare provider before making significant dietary changes, especially if you have existing health conditions or take medications.